DARE: It’s Never Too Early and Never Too Late – Two young enterprising careerists demonstrate.

Most of us by now have learned that using the term “seasoned executive” is a sure turnoff to many of today’s younger hiring managers, some of whom look as if they could be our kids but in fact are now our supervisors. They’re learning early how to Drive, Advance, Rule and Express their Experience and Expertise. 

Make no mistake that they are running the new world, and we must run along with them, run faster than them, or run and hide from them.  For me and other women over 40 who DARE, the last choice isn’t even an option.  I say we challenge ourselves to run along with them and champion them to win – the pie is big enough for all of us.    

Chardia Christophe

Chardia Christophe

 Two phenomenal young 20-something women I met several months ago illustrate this point.  At the behest of a friend, I attended an evening networking event sponsored by New York Women in Communications, being held at an Upper West Side restaurant in a very fashionable neighborhood in New York City.

Among the young women we observed scooping up guacamole, slurping mixed cocktails, and balancing their tiny frames on vertiginously high heels that evening were Micaela and Chardia Christophe.  Two utterly charming twin sisters, both have been working and learning about business since their early teens.  Micaela manages showroom merchandising projects at Donghia, a high-end home furnishings company featuring textiles, lighting and accessories. Chardia works for American Express, managing the marketing for a wine club along  with other member affinity clubs under such luxury brands as Food & Wine, Sky Guide, and Departures.  Chardia has a Master’s in Communication Studies; Micaela is pursuing her MBA in Marketing.  

micaela christophe

Micaela Christophe

Even a few of those remarkable accomplishments would place them high on my list of “young professionals I would love to mentor/sponsor/adopt.”  On top of that, they are extremely endearing, fascinating and fascinated about everything, and hilariously funny because of their complete and utter curiosity and genuine appreciation for every opportunity they have to advance their careers constructively and productively, make their parents proud and have as much fun as possible doing it.

Following is just some of the wise advice Micaela and Chardia offered when they spoke to my Marketing Planning class at NYU.  They didn’t merely shoot from the hip; they did a full-blown Power-Point presentation.  Their advice is as suitable for 60-somethings as it is for 20-somethings.  I’ve paraphrased only slightly for space and context, adding my own two cents- type comments here and there.   

1. Get engaged in the industry you wish to be in – especially if you’re job-hunting.   The ladies’ specific advice:   

  • Follow powerful people you admire or would like to network with on Twitter and LinkedIn.  Comment politely on their background or posts. 
  • Volunteer at events whenever you can.  
  • Go to mixers and network strategically. 

 2. Professionalize your phone presence and voice messages.  The ladies’ advice:  

  • Be sure your outgoing message as well as the ones you leave for others are friendly and professional.
  • If you are trying to persuade busy executives, script out what you want to say, because very few executives pick up their own phones, and assistants will happily put you into voice mails.
    My own two cents:  Record and listen to your cadence and delivery (this goes for oral presentations in general).  Be especially cognizant of what I see in women of all ages, the telltale “uptick” at the end of declarative sentences as if they were questions.   

 3. Check your email, at least three times a day; being responsive is a highly valued trait. 
My two cents: if you truly cannot respond in a day, at least acknowledge the email within 24 hours and/or default to an “out of office” notice so your lack of reply doesn’t seem discourteous.  If you’re like me and running through airports mowing down baby strollers and old people, you’re probably not interested in email as much as you are in food and bathroom facilities. 

 4. Be careful with your wardrobe. Remember to “dress for the job you want, not for the job you have.” 
My two cents: nothing saddens me more than to see a woman over 40 dressed slovenly or in sweat pants in public unless said woman is: a) escaping from an Outward Bound retreat; b) coming or going to the gym; c) appearing in public that way before dawn, in which case “slovenly” might be most handy caffeine-procurement garb, in which case, perfectly suitable!

 5. Utilize your friends and contacts courteously when job hunting. The ladies’ advice:  Reach out to all your contacts and let people know you’re looking. People like to help, and they can’t if you haven’t asked them!    Looking for a job IS YOUR JOB. 
My two cents:  regarding your friends and contacts, do ASK, don’t demand; accommodate their schedules, don’t impose;  be geo-friendly – don’t specify neighborhoods you’d prefer to meet when time is tight for the people you’re asking! 

 6. Practice, Practice, Practice. The ladies’ advice:

  • Go through the possible interview questions until you’re blue in the face.
  • Know the company well, so well that you feel confident and comfortable.
  • Remind yourself of the value of direct eye contact with the interviewer. As you practice, look in a mirror to be sure your body language is relaxed and strong, that you are not fidgeting.
  • Try out your wardrobe choice in advance.  
    My two cents:  when you’ve done so much research on the firm and reviewed your resume to the point where you could recite it from memory, group all of your benefits to the employer into these three “bundles:” strengths, motivation and fit.  Trust me, ALL interview questions fall into those areas, and ALL of them must reflect what the employer most wants that you are willing to deliver to get the job. 

7. Go to ALL interviews.  Consider them networking opportunities, even if you do not get the job. You never know who knows who. 
My two cents:  AMEN to that, for sure!  It also helps to have a strategic job-hunting plan, and identify the kinds of people you most need to cultivate.

 8. Use good online Resources:  Media Bistro, Indeed, LinkedIn – all are good for a variety of jobs.  There are new online career sites emerging every day. 
My two cents:  Don’t forget that most hiring managers either hire from within or hire someone they know and trust.  More than that, you need to research and secure a SPONSOR.  (See my previous blogs for more on working with sponsors:    http://thedareforce.com/2013/05/20/executives-over-40-a-few-choice-words-from-your-sponsor-part-1/; http://thedareforce.com/2013/05/30/part-2-great-expectations-from-sponsors-from-you/

Micaela and Chardia Christophe are just two of the young professionals currently hoping to run the new world.  Here’s hoping that their managers over 40 are not only running along with them, but championing them to win.  Leaders over 40 need to embrace every opportunity to mentor, champion and sponsor the next generation. If you doubt the pie is big enough for all of us, then the next generation of digital natives and relentlessly inventive entrepreneurs will be eating your lunch.